Somatic Sexology: Where mind & Body Connect for Epic Pleasure & Incredible Sex.

Somatic sexology is the meeting of somatics (focusing awareness through the body), with sexology (the scientific study of human sexuality).

It is the merging of practices from time-tested traditions such as yoga, meditation and tantra, with cutting edge research in neuroscience, psychology and somatic learning theory.

Somatic sexology develops ‘embodiment’, which is deeper presence, awareness and understanding of what is going on in your body and in sex. Embodiment releases body-mind restrictions that inhibit pleasure, and allows space for greater growth, choice and play - institutute of somatic sexology.

Hey, Im Tamica.

I teach you how to work WITH your mind and body to deepen your pleasure and start having the best sex of your life!

Areas I specialise in...

  • Post partum pleasure and erotic reactivation
  • Couples sexual aliveness and communication
  • Desire & libido
  • Painful sex
  • Erectile challenges
  • Ejaculatory challenges
  • Sexual confidence & Erotic Embodiment for all genders
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What to expect in a session...

Sessions are lead by the client while the learning and somatic enquiry is facilitated by the practitioner.

A learning goal is set.

A history is taken.

A touch, boundaries and consent agreement is formed.

All sessions is focused solely on learning and re-experiencing sensations in the body.

Somatic tools such as breath, sound, conscious touch and placement of awareness are woven through the sessions in order to work towards the learning goal.

It is a reflective process that involves mind & body connection. 

Youre then given tasks and guidence for home exploration and/or practice.


Individuals and couples who work with somatic sexologists may like to :

  • Increase connection to the body and somatic intelligence / awareness
  • Learn how to set embodied boundaries
  • Access greater pleasure and orgasm
  • Regulate and soothe the nervous system
  • Decrease numbness and/or tension in the entire body
  • Address pelvic tension and challenges
  • Imporove partnered intimacy
  • Learn about anatomy
  • Access greater confidence
  • Improve communication & consent

“WOW I actually initiated sex with my husband last night - becuase I WANTED to! I've not felt this confident in quite ome time. Thank-you SO much for your important work, Tamica”

SA - Victoria

"After working with Tamica I feel more "myslef" Its hard to explain. Im starting to love and appreciate my body and actually enjoy being in my own skin. Moving into more pleasure has been a challenge but well worth the time and investment for me”



I always step away from our sessions feeling so grounded, calm and inspired. Tamicas approach is professional, gentle and full of wisdom. This work has literally changed my life. If you have the chance to work with Tamica I highly recommend you do so!

SP - Brisbane

About your practitioner...

Tamica Wilder is a sexologist, author and multi-qualified therapist with a deep passion for teaching women how to re-connect with their power and unapologetic self-expression while giving full permission to shamelessly prioritise pleasure and play.

She believes that our current cultural narratives on sex, intimacy and pleasure need a big shake up and as founder of The Orgasmic Mama™ Tamica is committed to leading the charge.

Working with our sexuality and relationships can be a tricky and intricate piece of the personal development puzzle. Tamica brings over 19 years of facilitation and group work experience and guides with wisdom, compassion, humour and love in all that she does.

Her work arms you with the tools you need to create lasting and meaningful change and reconnects you with all that's possible inside your embodiment and full, authentic sexual expression.

Tamica is a fully qualified and ensured somatic sexologist, Kinesiologist, EFT coach and bodyworker.



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